There exists a plethora of ways to engage in sexual activities, catering to diverse preferences and equipment—both natural and store-bought. However, sexual pleasure transcends the mere attainment of orgasms; it's a nuanced facet of life. For many individuals with vaginas, especially those engaging in intimacy with cis-men, achieving an orgasm might pose a challenge. It often demands finesse, effective communication, and a fundamental understanding of anatomy.
Today, our aim is to equip you with knowledge, enabling you to take control during intimate moments with your significant other. Experts have curated a selection of five exceptional sex positions, deemed highly effective for guaranteeing orgasms for vagina-owners. While the term "guarantee" may seem ambitious—given the uniqueness of each body and the complexity of orgasms—having a few reliable positions that stimulate and target specific areas can work wonders. Moreover, these positions can significantly ease the process of guiding your partner toward gratifying experiences.
The names of these positions are as captivating as the experiences they promise. They encompass The G-Whiz, The Drop Box, The Tilt-a-Whirl, Closed for Business (hint: it's not what you expect!), and In High Heels (a name we've coined, but it fits perfectly!).
Let's delve into each position:
The Drop Box
This enticing position, labeled by relationship coach and sex enhancement specialist Delilah Taylor as The Drop Box, involves the partner being penetrated lying on her back, hips slightly off the bed. The penetrating partner stands in front, supporting her legs, facilitating a natural upward motion for penetration, directly stimulating the G-spot area.
To optimize pleasure, explore both variations of the G-Whiz. In the first, the penetrating partner lifts their partner's bottom, with legs straddling their shoulders. This position elevates the uterus, exposing the cul-de-sac—an erogenous zone deep within the vagina—allowing targeted stimulation for an incredible orgasm. The second variation involves lifting the vagina-owner's bottom with pillows or a sex wedge, knees to ears. This shortens the vagina, enabling deeper penetration to stimulate both the G-spot and the A-spot, resulting in toe-curling orgasms.
Embark on an exhilarating journey with The Tilt-a-Whirl. Here, the partner with feet on the floor sits on the bed's edge while the partner being penetrated sits on their lap facing each other. Leaning backward at a 45-degree angle, supported by each other's arms, this position ensures stimulating penetration in the G-spot area, promising a satisfying finish.
For a unique oral experience, explore the Closed for Business position. Performing cunnilingus with the vagina-owner's legs closed leads to a slow yet intensifying build-up of sexual arousal, culminating in a powerful orgasm.
In High Heels
Elevate the heat by engaging in sex while wearing heels. This position involves standing on the floor, bent over the bed or table in high heels. It offers deeper penetration and optimal alignment, enhancing movement and pleasure during intercourse.
These positions, designed to target specific erogenous zones, can potentially unlock intense pleasure and gratification for vagina-owners. Experimenting with these techniques, understanding personal preferences, and effective communication can elevate intimate experiences, ensuring heightened satisfaction and mutual pleasure.